Get it Together

::Personal Post::

Hey so this is more of a personal post from me and I really don't do these too often...rate my post at the bottom so I know whether or not to do more of these!

So what happens when the person that is always gives out advice and tries to help everyone else needs some advice of their own. Everyone hits a low point in their life at sometime. It's all about how you plan to get out of the low point and finding a way to stay out.
Right now I feel like I'm not giving 100% of me and its killing me! I want so much more out of life and I just feel like I'm not doing what I want to be doing. I just really want to LIVE my life. I'm only 20 and I have been through so much and accomplished so much! So many people doubted me and said I would never be where I'm at today and I'm here. But, I just know that I could be accomplishing so many things I always wanted too. I don't know if it's because I'm afraid or what's holding me back. I'm not sure. I don't know if its that I need support or what.

I know I'm sort of talking around my words but just email me @ xxsome1likemexx@gmail.com for advice, questions, or just someone to talk to!!!

XoXoXo
-T. Lacy

Be Thankful♥

Hey I am so sorry for the little small post I have been doing....Writer's Block!

Something that has been really heavy on my heart....

Be Thankful for the people that are currently in your life and let you know that you appreciate and love them. This time of the year is known for celebrating festivities but also known for an increased number of fatalities. Just because they are today doesn't mean that they will be here tomorrow. Don't let someone slip away from you without you telling them how much you love and care about them!

Love Always and Happy Holidays.::
-T. Lacy♥

Some words of enCOURAGEment♥

.::Words of Encouragement::.


-Never let anyone tell you that you CAN'T do something! You can do anything you put your mind to. Never let anyone tell you that you will never be anything! You are "You", and that is a heck of a lot of Original that no one else could ever be! No matter who you are, you are the ONLY one that was made EXACTLY like you!

P.S::
I am always here for advice, questions or just someone to talk to...
Email me @ xxsome1likemexx@gmail.com


-T.Lacy
XoXoXo

Girl Where you been???

Yeah, I know I been missing and not in action...LOL! But Baby I'm back♥

So much has been going on with me over the about last month and a half! My husband and I recently bought our 1st home in August and we have been working on it and trying to make it perfect before moving in. It was a long drawn out process but definitively worth it! I just can't believe how much of a difference owning your own home feels! Their are a lot of extras that come with a house, being that we moved from a small apartment but, we plan to make everything work out for the better. We also wanted to be done and moved into our new home by our 1st wedding anniversary and YES WE DID IT! We celebrated our 1st wedding anniversary on Oct. 21 and It was one of the most memorable nights that I will ever have! He had to work but, when he got home...it was ON! I had a big dinner waiting for him and he lit up the fire pit and we made smores' and talked and drank...it was really a lot of fun!

On to a little more less exciting part. On September 24 my sister gave birth to stillborn baby.
                                                         RIP Da'Sean Kaden
For a lot of people its not as serious of a deal but when its totally unexpected and something goes wrong during delivery it can be very heartbreaking. I just really wanted to be there for my sister and give her all the support that I could. This was just a really hard thing for my family and all the love and prayers that we received was just a blessing!

So I have a couple of posts on my mind that I would like to share...just a matter of me typing it out and posting it!

Love ya Bunches♥♥♥
T.Lacy

Love 101

Never chase love, affection, or attention. If it’s not given freely, then it’s not worth having! You should never have to beg for something that should naturally be given to you. If you mean a lot to someone then, they will try to keep you in their life…If not move on….don‘t waste your time on someone who doesn’t care about you. You should never have to question whether or not someone loves you. If they truly love you, you will know. It’s like a feeling that is unexplainable, you may not even know what exactly it is but, you know that it’s just something there. I remember my husband (my then boyfriend) telling me, “It’s something about you, and I don’t know what it is and I don’t even have to figure it out. I just know that you’re different from everybody else. I don’t want to find out what it is because I feel like that’s when the relationship gets boring.” That was 3 years ago and I still don’t know if he figured it out yet but, what he didn’t know was when you do figure it out that’s when you elaborate on whatever it is and cherish every bit of it. Then, I would know for sure how to love you right! Guess we’re doing a pretty good job at it…we’re still married! Although, this is my story, it’s not going to be the same for you. Everyone loves differently and everyone wants to be loved a certain way. So I can’t tell word for word what it's like to be loved. Not everyone knows how to do this and it’s a skill that I believe is acquired with TRUE LOVE.

Inspiration Video: Keyshia Cole-This is US

Always remember that no one can tell you how YOU are feeling. That goes for any topic. No one can tell you who you love and who you don’t. You are in control of your OWN life. Of course, you may be need guidance but ultimately it’s all up to you.

Love ya

-T. Lacy