Surviving a Teen Pregnancy

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Women vs. Girls

Come on now, really, when are you going to grow up?

The very statement, "I'm grown", is what defines you as still childish. A true grown woman does not have to protest that is she indeed "grown". You can tell a grown woman from the way she presents herself and carries herself among others. See, the difference between girls and women is; girls want attention and women want respect. You know like, some girls just run around and always want to draw attention to themselves by doing things that make them look foolish. Whether, its what they wear(or maybe what they don't), the attitudes, the fighting, it's really all just non-sense to me. A woman gets noticed by the achievements she makes and the positive attributions to life. She gets respect by just simply being her!

Cell phone Post

ok so i am doing this post from my cellphone so please excuse any gramatical errors or any other errors for that matter. so i can't go to sleep right now and i have a lot on my mind so i thought this would be the perfect time to write a post! ok so on to the post. you can't change who a person is or what the person will become. as much as i would like my daughters to be successful ,I however can not make them successful thats is something that they have to do and want themselves. i can push them and tell them until i am blue in the face and if thats not what they want then i mean so long to my dreams. ever heard the saying every man for himself. well, i put a little twist on the meaning. to me it means every man live, thinks, and does for himself and that includes everyone babies, teens, adults, elders! you can give a baby a bottle but if they don't want to drink it their not going to drink it. same follows for all ages!

Get to Know Me:: Part 1

1. What is your first name?:

Tiara

2. Drama?
Sometimes

3. Are you a girly girl?:I would same I'm in between

4. Who was the last person you hugged?:Hubby

5. Small or large purses?:
The bigger the better!

6. Are you short?:
5'4 you determine

7. Do you like somebody:My Husband

8. What would you do if someone smacked your butt?:
depends on who it is and if they were joking around haha

9. Do you care if your socks are dirty?:
Yes, I hate dirty socks!

10. Do you dress up on Halloween?:
Not really, may put on some makeup

11. Are you double jointed?:
Yes, If your saying can I put my arms behind my head

12. Where is the weirdest place you have slept?:IDK never really slept in a weird place

13. Has anyone touched/smacked your butt in the past 24 hours?:
Yes...lol

15. Do you call anybody by their last name?:
Used to in highschool

16. How many guys will read this just because it says “Girl Confessions”?:
None

“X” Marks the Spot:

[x] I do wear make up
[] I have cried at a movie theater.
[x] I can put mascara on without opening my mouth.
[] I get jealous.
[x] I think Johnny Depp is sexy.
[x] I love to laugh.
[] I like death/grind/black metal.
[x] I like rap.
[] I like country
[] I carry a purse.
[x] I’d be lost without my computer.
[x] I own a Spice Girls CD.
[x] I own a Britney Spears CD.
[x] I own a boy band CD.
[] I get bored watching football.
[] I’ve never been called a spoiled brat.
[x] Guys are confusing.
[x] I’ve been called a bad influence.
[] I have/had a piercing other than my ears.

17. What color is your bra that your wearing?:
black

18. Do you prefer light or dark haired guys?:
dark

19. Are you currently frustrated with a boy?:
nope

20. Do you have a best friend(s)?:
My hubby...I know I'm so lame!

21. Have you ever had your heart broken?:
yup :(

22. Have you ever thought of having plastic surgery?:
Kinda.. Just keeping it real.

23. Do you like your life?:
Sometimes.....lol

24. Has one of your friends ever stolen a boyfriend from you?:yeah, i think like in elementary but, i didn't care...lol "she can have my leftovers"

25. Have you ever jumped in the pool with your clothes on?:
I've been pushed in the pool with my clothes on

26. Do you have more friends that are girls or boys?:
i think boys

27. How long have you had Facebook?:
3 years

28. Have you ever slapped a boy in the face? :
haha yes

29. What are your biggest fears?:life

30. Have you ever cried yourself to sleep?:
yes.

31. Have you ever not been able to get someone off of your mind?:
yea :(

32. Do you believe in the saying “once a cheater, always a
cheater”?:
depends on the person

33. Have you ever had a good feeling about something?:
yes

34. Do you ever wish you were famous?:
sometimes

35. Are you currently missing someone?
many

This guy or that guy? this guy

Punk/Goth or Gangster?: neither ...

Preppy or Cowboy?: preppy!

Face or Body?: body

Sweet or Sexy?: mixture of both would be nice.

Well-educated or Dropout?: well educated

Armani or Abercrombie?: armani

City-slicker or Rural Guy?: both, a good balance.

Blue, Green, Grey, or Brown eyes?: brown or grey

Contacts or Glasses?: either

More Questions.

36. Eyeliner or Mascara?: mascara

37. Louis Vuitton or Dooney & Bourke?: Dooney

38. Pumps or flats?: Pumps

39. Skirts or pants?: Depends

40. Socks or leggings?: no show socks

41. Hoodies or jackets?: hoodies

42. Heels or sneakers?: Heels

43. Straight or curly hair?: straight

44. Hoop or dangling earrings?: studs

45. White or black?: black &white...lol

46. Victoria’s Secret or Bath and Body Works?: victoria’s secret

47. Smoothies or lattes?: smoothies

48. Diet or regular sodas?: neither...tea

49. Water or daiquiris?: water

50. Pearls or diamonds?: pearls

51. Vintage or boho?: vintage

52. Mary-Kate or Ashley Olsen?: Ashley

53. Lindsay or Hilary?: Hilary!

54. Ipod or cell phone?: cell phone

55. Friends or family?: Family.. Friends are the family we choose :)

56. Lip gloss or lip stick?: gloss

57. Manicure or pedicure?: pedicure

58. Tiffany’s or Chanel?: chanel

59. Love or peace?: both

60. Sunglasses or purses?: Purses.. I can use them to shield the light haha

In a girl or guy…

Funny or Serious?: funny

Romantic or Daredevil?: both

Cute or Hot?: either

Dark Eyes or Light Eyes?: depends

Long Hair or Short Hair?: depends

Curly Hair or Straight Hair?: doesn't matter

Clean-cut or Rough?: clean cut

Good Dancer or Good Singer?: both

Basketball Player or Football Player?: football

Jock or Rebel?: jock

Smoker or Non-smoker?: non smoker

Druggie or Clean?: clean

Has a Motorcycle or Has a Sports Car?: sports car or motorcycle

Beard/Mustache or Clean-shaven?: clean shaven

Younger or Older?: sames

Player or Loyal?:loyal

Friendship:When 1 side is sinking

Did you know that there is a difference between a friend and an acquaintance? A friend is someone that you have a connection with and you feel like you can tell them anything, and you always want to be around that person, do everything with that person. An acquaintance is someone who just happens to be there and come in your life and you get comfortable with it and basically-they are just there to be company. It is very important to know the difference. I think where people start messing up is when they start letting the people that should be an acquaintance become a very close friend.

Well let me give you some examples of what I think is an acquaintance misclassified as a friend. If you tell your “friend” something that went on with you and your boyfriend last night and then a week later your whole school knows about it. Or every time you have conversations with this person, you seem to be the one that’s telling all your information and they are the one listening. Then when you’re done they don’t give you any feedback back or have something to tell you or they only tell you half of their story and later on you find out that things went down totally different then what they said. I know everyone knows this one; The friend your always doing favors for and going out of your way when they need your help but when the tables are turned they always have an excuse of why they can’t help you or why they can’t do something.  All of these scenarios I would put that “friend” in the acquaintance category. There is nothing wrong with being friends with someone like this, but maybe you need to either let them be and fall back on things that you are doing for them or maybe something that they are doing to you that you don’t like. You need to communicate and let them know. Yes, they may be mad but, if they are a true friend they will realize it and get over it. If this is you being the( acquaintance friend) then maybe you need to show that person that you appreciate what they do, or start doing something for them, or keep your mouth close when it comes to them telling you their personal information they only want you to know. They told you for a reason, they thought they could TRUST you!

My thing that I want you to get out of this post is: Watch who you tell your business to and if they are telling it to you keep your mouth close. You need to learn to tell a person only what you want them to know. If they are an acquaintance then maybe you shouldn’t be telling them all your business unless you truly trust this person. I know it’s hard but, I promise it will help you in the long run.

"True friendship is based on trust, honesty and sincere generosity of our hearts."
---Song Park

Busy as a BEE

Hey everyone this is just a small post to let you know what's been going on with me lately. I will have some new posts coming very soon, I have just been VERY busy with life and I am WORN out! Will get new posts up ASAP!
Love ya

Love 101

Never chase love, affection, or attention. If it’s not given freely, then it’s not worth having! You should never have to beg for something that should naturally be given to you. If you mean a lot to someone then, they will try to keep you in their life…If not move on….don‘t waste your time on someone who doesn’t care about you. You should never have to question whether or not someone loves you. If they truly love you, you will know. It’s like a feeling that is unexplainable, you may not even know what exactly it is but, you know that it’s just something there. I remember my husband (my then boyfriend) telling me, “It’s something about you, and I don’t know what it is and I don’t even have to figure it out. I just know that you’re different from everybody else. I don’t want to find out what it is because I feel like that’s when the relationship gets boring.” That was 3 years ago and I still don’t know if he figured it out yet but, what he didn’t know was when you do figure it out that’s when you elaborate on whatever it is and cherish every bit of it. Then, I would know for sure how to love you right! Guess we’re doing a pretty good job at it…we’re still married! Although, this is my story, it’s not going to be the same for you. Everyone loves differently and everyone wants to be loved a certain way. So I can’t tell word for word what it's like to be loved. Not everyone knows how to do this and it’s a skill that I believe is acquired with TRUE LOVE.

Inspiration Video: Keyshia Cole-This is US

Always remember that no one can tell you how YOU are feeling. That goes for any topic. No one can tell you who you love and who you don’t. You are in control of your OWN life. Of course, you may be need guidance but ultimately it’s all up to you.

Love ya

-T. Lacy 

You live to Learn

“By 3 methods we may learn wisdom: First, by reflection, which is the noblest; second, by imitation, which is the easiest; and third, by experience, which is the bitterest.”-Confucius

Song of inspiration: Brittany Spears- Stronger

Life doesn’t come with a manual. You have to just learn how to roll with the punches and sometime those punches may really hurt but those are the ones that make you stronger! I’m sure you heard the quote, “What doesn’t kill you makes you stronger”!  That is absolutely true. Every day is a lesson learned. You learn something new whether you know it or not. Learning how to take obstacles that you run into and learning from it, is LIFE! Whether, it is big or small. Maybe you get into a fight with your best friend over something that you told his/her big brother. Your friend gets mad and you promise to never do it again. Lesson learned. Learning by experience may be one hard thing to do but, I guarantee it will be the most memorable.

You always hear your parents/grandparents telling you, “I’ve been there before” or “Learn from my mistakes”. Learning from others is maybe one of the easiest ways to learn but, may be one of the hardest to follow. I personally don’t really like others telling me what to do. I do listen, but, I like to basically do what I want to do and then whatever happens, happens! Sometimes there are times when I wish I would have listened but me being the person that I am. I just had to see for myself.

The last but, not the least learning from YOU. This is just a little bit different from learning by experience. This is like looking in the mirror and seeing that you did something right and you liked the way it made you feel. It goes the same way with things you don’t like about yourself. This is the truest way of learning.

When you live to learn: You learn to live.